Anyone who watched the moving two-part series on BBC1 over the last two evenings on the topic of “Honour Killings” amongst the Asians and specifically the Muslims in the UK will no doubt be distraught and heartbroken at this blight on our community, indeed blight on our Honour.

There is much to say and analyse concerning this subject and recent public responses and articles have not done justice to the issue at hand - it requires a complete study, an understanding of its causes, and then upon a clear methodology based upon the Qur’an and Sunnah and our present day realities, a set of viable and practical solutions offered to deal with the various aspects of the problem, giving guidance to the initial guilty parties, the then aggrieved, the “stirrers”, and all other people involved along the line.

This is not about the Muslims accepting blame for this problem which of course affects many non-Muslim as well as Muslim communities; rather it is a recognition that as callers to a system that offers guidance and light to all people in all their affairs, it would be good to start with our own various communities around the world first before we start to export our values to anyone else and be accused of hypocrisy.

I shall be dealing with this topic in detail in the Adab show insha’Allah hopefully within the next few weeks or late February, during the explanation to the weak narration (collected by Imam Ahmed and Imam al-Bukhari) of the Prophet (s) when he informed that the greatest of Sadaqah was, “To provide for your daughter when she is returned to you and you are her sole source of provision.”

May I also inform all of the significance of tonight with respect to the Adab class: we shall be starting one of the most pressing topics of our time, “Bringing up Children”, which has been given pride of place by Imam al-Bukhari as no doubt it should. I’d like to advise all those who are parents or who intend to be very soon to pay close attention over the next few months to the explanations of the Prophetic narrations on this vital subject which is in effect our collective future. The class remains at 7.30pm at Makki Masjid, all welcome, and your du’as are requested.

Wa billahi tawfiq.